In Quest of the Mythical Mate

Written by pioneers in the field of couples therapy, the classic edition of In Quest of the Mythical Mate presents Dr. Ellyn Bader and Dr. Peter Pearson's methodology for analyzing how couples' relationships develop and grow over time. They provide practical intervention strategies that promote both individual development and relationship strengthening. Originally published in 1988, this foundational couples therapy text introduces the Developmental Model of Couples Therapy (also known as the Bader-Pearson Model). It provides a structured yet flexible approach to understanding and treating relationship issues. It offers practical diagnostic tools and treatment strategies that therapists can use with couples in distress including questionnaires, innovative assessment techniques, and specific therapeutic interventions. This essential book is intended for marriage and family therapists, psychologists, counselors, and other mental health professionals who treat couples.

1. A Developmental Model of Relating 2. Diagnosing the Couple's Stages 3. Treating Couples in a Developmental Model 4. The Symbiotic-Symbiotic Couple: Enmeshed Type 5. The Symbiotic-Symbiotic Couple: Hostile-Dependent Type 6. The Symbiotic-Differentiating Couple 7. The Differentiating-Differentiating Couple 8. The Symbiotic-Practicing Couple 9. The Practicing-Practicing Couple 10. Rapprochement ... and Beyond 11. Commonly Asked Questions